You just want to be successful, right?
Everyone wants to be a winner at something. It’s just human nature to want to be considered a success at something, anything. Society has placed so much pressure on our children to be the best. The standards of everyday success are set so high it’s difficult to understand who sets them!
I have struggled with self-esteem issues for a number of years dealing with my weight. Issues about being “different.” Just plain issues, like most people. However, I found a way to win EVERY DAY at something. Slowly reframing my vision of myself and how I viewed success and measured achievments.
Here a just a few of my winning made easy tips:
1. When you get up each day, CONGRATULATE YOURSELF!!! Why? Because you could have chosen to check out and simply quit on your life and you didn’t. Thank God for one more day and because you choose to use it and not loose it, You’re a winner!!
2. Every time you say “Hello” and smile at someone and they simply smile backand/or speak back. CONGRATULATE YOURSELF!!! Why? Because you have single handedly changed the energy exchanged between to humans! Some people may go all day never having had ANY ONE smile at them or greet them. You chose to be a life changer for someone…That makes you a winner for giving positive energy!
3. When physically you don’t look or feel “beautiful” in your own eyes. Or you feel you are just not good enough at anything…CONGRATULATE YOURSELF!! Why? Because you have the ability to process thought! Now process this! You have eyes with vision now use your INNER VISION to see your TRUE YOU. Who is fearfully and wonderfully made. The True you that can live, breathe, think and move just because GOD said SO and because HE LOVES YOU BETTER THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF! On some days simply realizing that makes you a winner. You are a winner because you chose to embrace love and share it with others!
4. Finally, we often need to find success in simple things. For example, you cleaned the bathroom and but not the whole house. You are a winner!
a. You got the kids to school on time! Considering what you went through his morning, YOU’RE A WINNER!
b. You made it through another day without GOING ALL THE WAY OFF AND LOOSING CONTROL….You my friend are a winner, because your day could have ended differently.(at the Justice Center)
c. You cooked a decent meal for your family or yourself 2 times this week. YOU are winner!
The key to winning is finding victory in small things and reframing your negative thoughts to make a positive thought the result!
REMEMBER YOU ARE A WINNER TODAY! BECAUSE YOU SAID SO!
Log in and tell me what you think or tell me how you are a winner EVERY DAY!
